About the Book

"Belonging is remembered, together."

We are living in a time of profound fragmentation—within ourselves, between one another, and across the very systems meant to hold us together. In the midst of this unraveling, many of us feel the ache for belonging without knowing how to return to it.

Beneath this experience lies a deeper crisis, not simply of politics or technology, but of relationship itself. We have become highly skilled at optimizing, managing, and performing. Yet in narrowing our attention toward efficiency and control, we have sacrificed the very presence that allows trust to grow.

The Communal Heart offers a different starting point. Rather than prescribing quick fixes or reinforcing familiar self-improvement narratives, this book invites readers into a relational understanding of reality, one rooted in presence, attunement, and the quiet intelligence that emerges when we learn to meet life as it is rather than as we wish it to be.

Drawing on clinical experience, neuroscience, and embodied practice, Claudia Dommaschk shows how the divisions we see in today’s culture mirror a subtle split within ourselves. As we begin the work of integration, something steadier becomes possible: relationships can withstand tension, communities become grounded in dignity, and a deeper sense of connection takes hold, even in a world pulling us apart.

This is not a call to agree more. It is an invitation to relate differently and, in doing so, to remember that belonging has always been there, waiting to welcome us home.

*Corrections to the First Printing

The Communal Heart is available everywhere books are sold on September 15, 2026

Gather Your Own Wisdom Circle

The ideas in The Communal Heart are not meant to remain on the page. They are meant to be lived, practiced, and shared in community.

To continue the journey, visit Wisdom Exchange—a growing network of small Circles of Trust where people gather to cultivate presence, listen deeply, and discover the wisdom that emerges among us. There, you’ll find simple guidance for beginning a Wisdom Circle of your own or connecting with others who are drawn to this practice.

Because belonging is not something we find once and for all. It is something we create, one conversation at a time.

About The Author

Claudia Dommaschk is a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) with nearly thirty years of clinical experience, a long-time student of Gestalt Practice, and the founder of Wisdom Exchange, an international community exploring what it means to cultivate belonging in a fractured world.

As the familiar structures of modern life continue to unravel, many are awakening to a deeper longing for connection, coherence, and meaning. Claudia believes this liminal space between what has been and what is emerging offers an invitation to live differently. Through her writing, teaching, and community-building, she invites us to slow down, turn toward what is real, and discover the wisdom that emerges when we learn to listen deeply to ourselves, one another, and the living world we share.

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Speaking & Events

Claudia speaks on the urgent need to restore connection in a world marked by disconnection, burnout, polarization, and loneliness. Drawing from more than thirty years of work as a psychotherapist, as well as her writing on The Communal Heart, she invites audiences to explore a more relational way of living, leading, and being with one another.

Her work helps individuals, communities, and organizations understand how presence, mutuality, and coherence can become practical pathways for healing, repair, and meaningful change.

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Speaking Topics

Relational Intelligence in a Disconnected World

How we can rebuild our capacity to listen, attune, and respond with greater presence and care.

The Communal Heart

An introduction to Claudia’s central framework for restoring connection within ourselves, between one another, and across the systems we share.

Leading Through Relating

A new model of leadership rooted in presence, trust, generativity, and “power with” rather than “power over.”

From Fragmentation to Wholeness

How burnout, loneliness, polarization, and ecological distress point back to a deeper relational rupture.

Repair, Dialogue, and the Practice of Belonging

How individuals and groups can move through rupture with honesty, responsibility, and relational courage.

Invite Claudia to Speak

Claudia is available for select media interviews, corporate and personal consultations, speaking engagements, and panel discussions centered on relational intelligence, healing, leadership, belonging, and the future of human connection.

To inquire about availability, topics, or fit for your audience, please reach out below.

Praise

The first hardcover printing of The Communal Heart (September 2026) contains a small number of errors that I identified after the book went to press. They are corrected in the ebook, the audiobook, and all subsequent printings. In the spirit of the book itself, which asks us to stay present with what is real, I’m noting them here.

Page 1 and Introduction, note 1. The opening statistic is misstated. The survey, commissioned by an AI-companion company, found that 80 percent of Gen Z respondents said they would consider marrying an AI if it were legal, not that they would marry an AI over a real person. The corrected note also makes the survey’s commercial provenance explicit: I cite it not as a reliable measure of Gen Z attitudes, but as evidence of how openly the human longing for connection is now being commercialized.

Introduction, note 3. The term metacrisis is misattributed to Edgar Morin. Morin (with Anne Brigitte Kern) is associated with the related term polycrisis; metacrisis was coined by Nicholas Hedlund and Sean Esbjörn-Hargens in 2015 and developed most influentially by Jonathan Rowson, Zachary Stein, and Daniel Schmachtenberger.

Chapter 15 (p. 176). Audrey Tang is described as Taiwan’s digital minister in the present tense. Tang left that post in 2024; the corrected text reads “the country’s first digital minister.”

Chapter 15 (p. 177). The What Could BG Be? initiative is described as gathering “over a million responses.” More precisely: nearly eight thousand residents submitted thousands of ideas and cast over a million votes on one another’s proposals.

Chapter 1, note 3, and Chapter 13, note 5. A sentence has been added acknowledging that the Stoet & Geary (2018) “gender-equality paradox” finding remains actively debated; I cite it as one line of evidence within a contested literature, not as a settled result.

If you find an error not listed here, I would genuinely like to know: claudia@thecommunalheart.com

— Claudia Dommaschk, September 2026